Women of yesterday and today: From the horse’s mouth
So last week we got together with the traveling guys talking about a future genre robot? Law?
Every time I am in the presence of men, young and old, similar themes are repeated. Again and again. It’s been SO bad for decades. The only difference is that it NOW affects young people. Wrong. We know that the human race depends on our young men and women taking over to keep Mother Earth dancing. After we are gone, it is.
Last month, a 22-year-old Briton shot five people, including a three-year-old girl, then turned his gun on himself while tortured. Jake Davidson (mentally unstable and on police records before) was part of a youth group called “Incels”. Incels share a similar bitter rage. Police said there were at least five million followers in the developed world.
In 2014, a 22-year-old American, Elliot Rodger, stabbed and shot six people and injured 14 others, then took his own life. Rodger claimed he was angry at being “rejected by women”, as well as at men who easily find female partners.
In April 2018, Alex Minassian, a Canadian, drove a van on a sidewalk and killed ten people, young and old. Internet sources quote him telling police that “he was angry with women” and that the attack was “retribution for years of rejection.”
The term “Incels” means “involuntary celibacy,” the sources continue. It was, ironically, created by a Canadian feminist, Alana, “for singles to discuss their sexual inactivity.” However, this term has taken a different direction.
Young men who have never had sex and never expect to have sex with women.
Are you still reading?
So, having finished our business the same evening, I discussed this hot topic with my friend.
“Women,” she explained, “are blamed for everything. Before feminism grew, we were doormats. Now that we have gone up we are accused of refusing to follow the men. We are still raped and killed every day.
Is this why looking and staring at women is now considered offensive?
She replied, “Women have always been treated as objects of pleasure. Historically, men never take us seriously. My generation (she’s in her fifties) used to be watched. Most of us doubted the lack of male attention. It’s natural. However, now the new generation of women has an attitude of protest. They are driven by neo-feminism. Anger and hatred of men. A protest attitude that says ENOUGH! No longer be doormats. Just check out the Bible (my friend is a devout Christian), Genesis chapter three.
Later, I checked verse 13: “And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers.” He will crush your head and you will hit his heel. And to the woman, He said that I will make severe your birth pains … your desire will be for your husband and he will reign over you.
In the meantime.
You must accept…
Each of us has a relationship with a woman. Mother. Aunt. Grandmother. Sister. Niece. Friend. Friend. Spouse. The girl. A woman is always a part of our lives. Subsequently, to say that women no longer love us is in itself a contradictory statement.
Therefore, everything related to women is everyone’s business.
What bothers me personally and guys of my generation (who I talk to) is where does this all lead? How are our young men going to have wives and lovers if they can’t watch and flirt? How are you drawn if you are not “allowed” to seek and choose a mate?
My girlfriend explained to me:
“Of course we all have to look at each other. What these young women don’t like is that men treat them like sex toys. It has been made evident by Internet pornography. Children as young as ten can access it, easily. Both boys and men ogle and look a certain way because of the influence of porn. They think porn is what sex should be like. Porn should be banned. Watching is not the problem. Women don’t feel safe, walking alone, walking at night, being alone with a group of guys in an unfamiliar place, so it creates a mixture of suspicion, tension and insecurity.
Is this why young women always look at their phones?
She said, “I don’t look at my phone when I walk down the street, thank you very much. I think it’s a generation story. These post-1990s grew up with gadgets. We are different. We grew up talking to each other and looking at each other. They communicate through their phones and the internet, so their perception of relationships is slightly different from ours.